Being a Real Man

Many hear of this, Male by birth, Man by choice.
So what makes a real Man?

Real men are tender to others, but tough on themself.

Tender, as in not soft, but a friend, one who listens, one who does not force his way through people, but win them over.

Tough, not as in Fit and Buffed, but more of a person who knows his limits. He sets his own limits, and knows when to stop. Takes control of what he is doing, and not go with the flow of the world.

Another thing, a leader leads himself with his mind, while he leads others with his heart. First of all, why lead others with your heart? The Holy Spirit resides in our heart, and well, we are told to love others, not lead others. We are to guide, not to control. So, the heart is the best tool to guide others to God, and also God’s people.
Leading oneself by the mind is because, the heart is easily tainted. When others do not keep a watch on our hearts, sin can easily overtake your life. Leading by the mind, is through GOD’S WORD, knowing what God truely wants. We cannot let our feelings guide us when we lead ourselves. This will lead to a life of self comfort. where you always want to let yourself be comfortable, and well. We will be stuck in our comfort zones! being stuck in our comfort zones=being stuck in our life! SO let’s, break out of our comfort zones, and do great things!